I know that I harp on this subject a lot. The tax inequality between a gay couple and a straight married couple is unfair. By not allowing gays to get married, you make two people pay more in taxes than a straight married couple. How can that possibly be fair? How can people fight against gay marriage when faced with the facts that this means an inequality in taxes? I truly believe those people who keep insisting on lower taxes and smaller government, yet keep fighting against gay marriage are – quite possibly – the world’s biggest hypocrites.
So, last week, I went and saw my parents and I tried to explain the tax inequality to my mother – who doesn’t get it. I’m writing this article for her. Maybe, she’ll get it. You can do the math, just like I did, by going to the IRS website and filling out the numbers. It works out the same every time – the gay couple pays more.
|Gay Couple||Salary||401k||Federal Tax|
|Straight Couple||Salary||401k||Federal Tax|
That probably doesn’t sound like a lot, but over the course of a lifetime together, that’s quite a bit of money. Now, if the spouses are evenly split with their salary, the difference works out to the gay couple paying $6.00 more than the straight couple. Still, not a lot of money, but the amount isn’t really the point – it could just be a penny more – the fact that gay people pay more in taxes is unfair. Further, I don’t know about your friends, but I don’t know too many couples who are completely and equally matched in salary. I would say that roughly 90% of the couples I know – when both members work – one spouse consistently out earns the other spouse. It is certainly true in my household. I earn almost twice as much as Cheryl does.
One other item regarding taxes: when a straight couple gets married, each spouse is able to place the other on their employer provided healthcare. They do not pay any extra on this benefit. Unmarried, domestic partners have to pay income taxes on the portion of the premium paid for by their employer. Does that sound fair or even intelligent? 43 million Americans are without healthcare and we make it harder for domestic partners to add their other halves to employer sponsored healthcare. Does that make sense? What is wrong with people?